Is This How You Are Allowing Your Own Daughter to Send You to Hell?

The sad reality about parents and females in the Ummah (islamic community) nowadays is their refusal of marriage proposals in the name of "Western education".My daughter is too young for marriage, she has to reach this level of education before, she has to become this and that, and the worst and saddest of it all is that, this is the same daughter of theirs who is into haram relationship (fornication), but they are not bothered at all despite them been aware and are encouraging it. She is old enough for fornication but too young for marriage, subhan Allah! No, let's face fact, what is it in marriage that a girl who is into fornication cannot do?

It's true that we need female teachers, doctors, nurses, engineers, and so on, but who says that marriage is the reason behind females not making it to this level. If a female who is in fornication earning the curse of Allah can make it to this level, then why can't the married one earning the blessings of Allah make it to this level if she so wishes? Let's not be deceived by the unbelievers who can go any height to achieve this dunya (world) whilst being negligent of the Akhirah (hereafter).The believer should keep a balance between the two. And if "Western education" is that which will prevent you from marriage and rather commit zina (fornication) then you better "STOP" it.

If the main reason for Allah ordaining marriage is to prevent zina (fornication) then WE in this generation needs it even more than the previous generations but we can learn from their narrations that early marriage was their custom. We all are aware that, in this time of ours, before a child will even reach puberty she already knows everything about marriage life due to the teachings of the school and internet, and is willing to have a taste of it, isn't it?

So what will be the fate of such person when she is being denied of it other than fornication and we Muslim's have chosen to follow blindly this evil way of the unbelievers by preventing our daughters from marriage due to western education instead of Us been example to them. Is this what Our Prophet taught Us?

Your beloved daughter whom you have decided to choose the dunya for instead of the Akhirah, is going to blame you for it before Allah on the day of judgement when she sees the reality ( the Fire of hell) and this is exactly what Allah meant in the Quran when He says "your wealth and children are a test for you ". Is for you to decide whether to pass or fail it.

Let's not imitate the unbelievers, for whoever imitate a people are part of them. (Prophet Muhammad saw)

My pleading to our dear parents is that, we should not prevent our daughters from marriage due to "Western education" but rather encourage them to embrace it in other to gain the pleasure of Allah and his Jannh

The Prophet said, "when a man whose Deen (religion) and character you are pleased of, ask your daughter's hand in marriage, accept it or else corruption (fornication) will spread throughout the Land. Isn't this what we are experiencing today due to our negligent of it? Woe unto those who are contributing factor to this and they are Muslims. Let your daughter be a blessing for you not a curse.

May Allah guide us all

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